Sri Aurobindo's  Writings on  Taraben   6.1.36   " You know that the Mother has entire confidence in you and entirely approves of your management of the godown and the kitchen , so there is no reason why you should be upset by the unreasonableness or accusations of people. Especially , Mridu is known by everybody to be violent in temper and unreasonable  what she says in her fits has no importance; She is constantly getting into them against the Mother even but the Mother knows her nature and takes no notice. What you should do when she is like that is to remain perfectly quiet and unconcerned and let her temper pass; her